True playing these games are terrible!

Hello Ella,

There are a lot of those 'links'. You start once and it nearly becomes impossible to get out of them.

That is why I like people who make it clear that if they have an opinion, they don't use it as the ABSOLUTE THRUTH.

Greetings


Shade

But I thought dark balances light ? so in light of the dark situation a positive if neutral out come would have to be made?

I 'm not into being all dark and things but I am trying to expand my conciousness to understand dark side of things more evenly.

In the sense that morals equal integrity. It is a moral right to be who you are? is it not?

That is where the judgement comes in is when you don't accept your neighbour as your self.

Does that make sense? one you begin to judge your other neighbour; then you judge yourself. Once you see that in the other person, you don't like in your self.

matt

Hello Mattdeluka,

Light and dark are just words, man-made definitions.

What one considers dark, the other considers as the best thing that can happen.

I made shadow-work and the greatests strengths I have, I found them there in the dark. I know the word "psychopath" fell already in my 'direction' but nevertheless, I never killed somebody and have no intention to do so.
Still there are people who consider me to be evil.

All this is the old question about the tree, wether it makes any noise falling if there is nobody around to hear it.

I don't know the author anymore but I will try to explain what somebody said at this subject.
Things do not only start to be good or bad the moment we think about it. Things also start to BE the moment we think about it.

Greetings


Shade

Shade wrote:

Hello Ella,

And who defines it?
One human being putting him- or herself above others.

When one person judges something to be bad for example
and a second person judges the same thing to be good, this second person judges the first person along with it, and so on.

That is why I don't play this game ;-)

Greetings


Shade

So in your eyes a rapist, pedophile or murder is no different to yourself or anyone else?

Therefore you put everyone in the SAME category - Your friends & family as well.

yeah I see what you are kinda saying.. but you got to go one way or the other.. it does not matter what you are as long as you are "being" your self.

Life is a game but we should be happy to be living.. it's not about having the option to be a,b or c.. the fact is we are living that route.. it to me all ties in with reincarnation.. but that's another chat all together..

however, I don't see you saying you are dark you are saying that you are neither? you are balanced?


matt

Hallo Matt,

Let me explain a bit further...

you say, I have to go one way or the other.
But whatever 'way' that is, it is defined by somebody, and so that means it is only his definition.

the next person will have another definition.

I am neither dark nor light, because I don't define.
Some might define it as dark, other as light.
As I said, some call me 'evil', others invite me to talk about enlightment
It is all in the eye of the beholder.

So I guess I try to be balance, because I don't care about those definitions anymore.

I will put it in the words of Socrates in Dan Milman's book: The only thing that is important is that I am HERE and NOW.

Greetings


Shade